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Escape to myself

Travelling to reconnect

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  • A delicious dinner with Ruth

    This was a delightful restaurant so for one night I pushed the boat out. An excellent menu, good wines and great company. A typical Tuscan dinner with local produce.

    thegaywidower

    October 26, 2023
    The consequences of travel
  • A visit to Queer Cinema Festival

    The film I’ve just seen was a documentary on Intersec. It was stunning, touching, heartbreaking and joyful. The experiences of the people interviewed were shocking and troubling and the efforts made to maintain a purely binary view of sexual identity by society and the medical profession were terrible and still exist today. What came through…

    thegaywidower

    October 22, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    courage, culture, discovery, gay, intersex. LGBTQIA, life change, queer, solo, the extraordinary, travel
  • Today … visits to Flea Market at Santo Spirito, Brancacci Chapel and Queer Cinema

    Last night I enjoyed a delicious dinner at Laura’s with some of her friends. I had met Gregorio and Roberta before. They are charming. They had a very rapid conversation about the Meloni situation which was amusing. Cloister at Santo Spirito … a rather austere church Santo Spirito contains a crucifix by the young Michelangelo……

    thegaywidower

    October 22, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    art Renaissance, Brancacci chapel, culture, discovery, Florence, frescos, gay, Italy, Masaccio, Masolino, solo, the extraordinary, travel
  • A trip to Assisi

    Assisi is rather beautiful perched on top of its hill. 3 miles from the station so you have to catch a bus into the city. Beautiful buildings newly restored after the two earthquakes of 1997 and 2016. The basilica is beautiful decorated with frescos by Giotto and Cimabue. the town itself is really hilly but…

    thegaywidower

    October 21, 2023
    The consequences of travel
  • A busy day

    Class was good for once and this afternoon I went wandering and then to the Florence Queer film festival with my classmate Ruth from Germany. She’s lovely. Saw a great short film. Then I ran home to get ready for dinner at Christina’s (my old landlady from June).

    thegaywidower

    October 19, 2023
    The consequences of travel
  • Perugia

    thegaywidower

    October 14, 2023
    The consequences of travel
  • Prato

    thegaywidower

    October 13, 2023
    The consequences of travel
  • Capella Scrovegni a Padua e Giotto

    I’m writing this sitting by the Grand Canal having my Colazzione. Yesterday was very busy: St Marks, Doge’s Palace and Padua combined with a lot of walking. As i walked I was struck by how hard it must be living in Venice. Bridges and steps everywhere, deliveries by trollies, hauled up and over bridges or…

    thegaywidower

    October 13, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    art Renaissance, frescos, Giotto, Italy, Padua, Scrovegni Chapel, solo, travel, UNESCO World Heritage
  • Fiesole

    thegaywidower

    October 12, 2023
    The consequences of travel
  • A day in Arezzo

    Yesterday evening after a busy day and a 2 mile walk in 30 degree heat from Santo Spirito along the Arno I found Laura had invited Cristina, my host from my stay in Florence in June, to dinner with her friend Gianfranco. Laura and Cristina are good friends it seems. It was lovely to see…

    thegaywidower

    October 7, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    Arezzo, Bacci Chapel, cimabue, discovery, Florence, friendship, gay, Italy, making connections, Piero Della Francesca, serendipity, solo, travel, Tuscany
  • A last evening in Oslo

    Rivers and Hipsters … Grunerlokka I thought I should visit the hippest place in Oslo before I Left. You walk by the river and it many waterfalls on the way to Grunerlokka an old industrial area. Full of bars, thrift shops and graffiti. It’s really interesting and just around the corner from the hostel. I’ll…

    thegaywidower

    August 31, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    Akerselva river, discovery, gay, graffiti, Grunerlokka, hipster vibe, Norway, Oslo, serendipity, solo, travel
  • At the FolkeMuseum Bygdoy

    This was a great day out and the weather was beautiful today; a ferry trip to the museum and a wander around this enlightening space. Founded in the 1890s it’s sim is to display Norwegian culture and heritage through buildings and objects. It is a little like our Weald Museum in Sussex and it contains…

    thegaywidower

    August 31, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    architecture, Bygdøy, churches, culture, discovery, FolkeMuseum, gay, life change, loneliness, medieval art, Norway, Oslo, solo, travel
  • An unexpected day in Oslo

    After my disappointment at missing Bergen … I really wanted to visit it! I spent the evening at a free film show in a square in Oslo. It’s part of their fringe festival. I really enjoyed it as it was in English with Norwegian subtitles. Liquorice Pizza was a charming film; funny and touching and…

    thegaywidower

    August 30, 2023
    The consequences of travel
  • At the Munch Museum

    I was blown away by this museum. A comprehensive view of Munch his life, his art and his themes and their interconnection. Of course like the Mona Lisa the Scream was almost impossible to see. However the vast array of prints, paintings and drawings more than made up for it. The themes that coloured Munich’s…

    thegaywidower

    August 29, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    art, discovery, gay, loneliness, Munch, Norway, Oslo, painting, solo, the extraordinary, travel
  • First impressions of Oslo

    Well the hostel is fine if large like all these northern hostels. I miss the smaller type of hostel I found in Italy. The city is modern and I was told it was boring but so far I’ve walked the city centre, past the Cathedral and ended up by the fjord and the Akerhus fortress…

    thegaywidower

    August 29, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    Akershus, architecture, art, culture, discovery, gay, hostels, medieval, Munch, Norway, Oslo, solo, travel
  • Heading for Oslo … a last morning in Stockholm

    Riddarhuset … House of Nobles As this is my last morning I was pleased to get into the Riddarhuset. Built in the 1660s it’s a beautiful building in baroque style and housed the nobility and acted as a proto-Parliament until the 19th century. The main assembly chamber walls are lined with the shields of the…

    thegaywidower

    August 28, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    architect, baroque, churches, discovery, gay, medieval, Riddarholmen, Riddarhuset, solo, Stockholm, Sweden, travel
  • At the Vasamuseet

    I spent a fascinating morning at the Vasa museum. Like our own Mary Rose this Swedish warship was salvaged from the Baltic having also sunk on her maiden voyage in 1628. Supposedly state of the art the ship is in a great state of preservation as a result of the brackish Baltic waters and is…

    thegaywidower

    August 27, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    discovery, gay, history, solo, Stockholm, Sweden, travel, Vasa Museum, Vasamuseet
  • Wandering in Stockholm Old Town.

    I’m now wandering in Stockholm Old City getting my bearings. It’s very attractive with its cobbled streets and painted buildings. It is very touristy but that’s to be expected. Tomorrow I’ll go in search of something less so. I’ve been recommended Sodermalm as hipster Stockholm so I’ll give it a try. One thing intrigues me;…

    thegaywidower

    August 26, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    architecture, discovery, flaneur, gay, loneliness, serendipity, solo, Stockholm, Sweden, travel
  • Arriving in Stockholm

    Well I had a fairly good night and got a few hours sleep in. Cabin was fairly comfortable and I had a good supper and breakfast this morning. A little sad to be leaving Helsinki but looking forward to my next stay … the route the ferry takes is lovely and takes you past pretty…

    thegaywidower

    August 26, 2023
    The consequences of travel
  • Sinebrychoff Museum Helsinki

    This is a rather good museum. Set in the home of a nineteenth century brewer and next to the Brewery it is redolent of the second empire period and furnished as such. The main salon has a fabulous suite of furniture. The art collection is excellent and is particularly strong in Dutch golden age paintings;…

    thegaywidower

    August 24, 2023
    The consequences of travel
  • Another day, another trip … Turku

    Today was drizzling in Helsinki but I caught the train to Turku where the sun was shining and it was beautifully warm. Shirt sleeve weather. This is the ancient capital of Finland and major city when it was ruled by Sweden. It is the oldest city in Finland but little if the ancient city survived…

    thegaywidower

    August 23, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    architecture, discovery, Finland, gay, medieval, solo, travel, Turku
  • A bus trip to Porvoo

    I’d heard good things about Porvoo so I decided to take the bus. It’s about an hour from Helsinki. It was easy to catch the bus from Kammpi shopping centre about 5 minutes walk from the Central Station. You can buy tickets on the bus. About €6. The bus takes you through the city and…

    thegaywidower

    August 22, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    architecture, baroque, churches, discovery, Finland, flaneur, gay, Jugendstil, Porvoo, solo, travel
  • Catching the bus to Lammassaari for a country walk

    I decided to get out of the city for a little and enjoy some country air. Lammassaari is an island nature reserve a twenty minute bus ride from Helsinki city centre. So I put on my boots and my new Estonian socks and headed out. It was easy to get to in the 71 bus…

    thegaywidower

    August 21, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    birdwatching, discovery, Finland, gay, Helsinki, Lammassaari, making connections, nature reserve, solo, the extraordinary, travel
  • Telliskivi graffiti and more

    I visited this wonderful boho and bougie area this afternoon. It’s really great … cool and upbeat. It was a former industrial complex and now is home to art galleries, restaurants, a world beating photographic museum, a container hotel and many independent shops and bars. A great place to wander and have a coffee and…

    thegaywidower

    August 19, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    culture, discovery, Estonia, gay, graffiti, serendipity, solo, Tallinn, Telliskivi, the extraordinary, travel
  • A museum for everything … some x-rated … be warned

    KGB headquarters… very chilling stories Prostitution display at Tallin City Museum

    thegaywidower

    August 19, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    culture, discovery, Estonia, gay, history of pornography, KGB, museums, solo, Tallinn, the extraordinary, travel
  • A morning in Tallinn

    The tourists have arrived in force as the cruise ships are docking this morning. Spanish, French, Italian, Japanese, German and many Americans. Question asked in Tourist Information; “ what can I see in the city in two hours? I have to be back on the ship.” Hansa trading city Tallinn has a fascinating history. The…

    thegaywidower

    August 19, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    architecture, backstreet, churches, discovery, Estonia, flaneur, gay, hostels, serendipity, solo, Tallinn, the extraordinary, travel
  • A night out

    Last night “the girls” took me out for an evening at Helsinki’s evening festival. I had first met them on my language course in Florence. They were so welcoming to a random stranger and during the past couple of days had kept me posted with interesting things to see in Helsinki. I didn’t feel such…

    thegaywidower

    August 18, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    discovery, Drag shows, Finland, friendship, gay, gin, Helsinki, jazz, making connections, solo, travel
  • Continuing my affair with Helsinki’s architecture

    thegaywidower

    August 17, 2023
    The consequences of travel
  • Oodi… Helsinki Central Library

    Wow! Amazing! Incredible! This shows what real investment and commitment from the powerful can achieve. While UK public libraries are in terminal decline and seem to have no impetus apart from closures, indifference and saving money this has been achieved. The design is fantastic both externally and the interior. It’s impeccable. A cafe to rival…

    thegaywidower

    August 17, 2023
    The consequences of travel
  • A trip to Suomenlinna on the ferry

    Suomenlinna is a fortress on a group of islands just off Helsinki built when Finland was ruled by Sweden. Building started in 1748 and it served as a navel base during the Swedish War with Russia. Now a UNESCO World Heritage Site it’s a beautiful place to wander and take in the Baltic Sea and…

    thegaywidower

    August 17, 2023
    The consequences of travel
    architecture, discovery, Finland, gay, islands, solo, Suomenlinna, travel
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